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Love

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For the 1960s band, see Love (band). The term is also used in tennis.

Love is the desire to share or the act of sharing. Special love is a special affection for someone or something, a feeling or emotion. Unhealthy love is the sharing or desire to share something which would not be good for you or the object of your desire.

Various different types of love exist. Dignity is a self love. Friendship is a simple love. Family can be a lifetime of love. You can love by helping your neighbor, Anything you share is love. You can share time, goals, problems, activities, you can love your children or parents. You can love for a lifetime, or you can show a little loving friendship for a moment. Anytime you share with another, you are expressing love. That is the commonality. Opinions vary on how to define goodness or good love:

  1. love between family members: parent's love of children, etc.
  2. love of friends
  3. romantic love
  4. sexual love, also called lust, can be healthy or unhealthy.
  5. loving one another in general, helping the homeless, or a wounded animal
  6. loving something abstract or inanimate, like an idea or goal
  7. loving ones principles, ones nation or home country (patriotism)one's life (dignity), ones honor and independence (integrity)

Some languages, such as ancient Greek, are better than the English at distinguishing between the different senses in which the word love is used. For example, ancient Greek has the words philia, eros, agape, and storge, meaning love between friends, romantic/sexual love, unconditional (possibly sacrificial, unreciprocated) love, and affection/familial love respectively. However, with Greek as with many other languages, it has been historically difficult to separate the meanings of these words totally, and so we can find examples of agape being used with much the same meaning as eros. At the same time the ancient Greek text of the Bible has examples of the verb agapo being used with the same meaning as phileo.

Table of contents
1 Psychological views
2 Religious views
3 Quotes about love
4 See also:
5 References

Psychological views

In an attempt to explain the commonalities and differences of the many types of love, Robert Sternberg has suggested a view of love involving three elements: intimacy, passion and commitment. Different stages and types of love can be explained as different combinations of the three elements. The combinations are as follows.

As a person develops their relationship with a loved one over time, the relative strengths of the elements tends to change. Generally love will start off strong in passion but weak in the other elements. However as time passes, the other elements may grow and passion may shrink -- this depends upon the individual. So what starts as Infatuation or Empty love may well develop into one of the fuller types of love. Likewise when a person has known a loved one for a long time, passion may fade, changing love from Consummate to Companionate, or from Romantic love to Liking. Note that the feeling which Sternberg terms passion is similar to, if not the same as, that termed limerence by Dorothy Tennov. Sternberg states that a relationship based on a single element is less likely to survive than one based on two or more.

Religious views

The Unification Church defines love in philosophical terms as "the emotional force given by the Subject to the Object". The church classifies love into three types:

  1. parental love
  2. conjugal love
  3. children's love

Different cultures have deified love, typically in both male and female form. Here is a list of the gods and goddesses of love in different mythologies.

Quotes about love

Love is a smoke made with the fume of sighs,
Being purged, a fire sparkling in lovers' eyes,
Being vexed, a sea nourished with lovers' tears.
What is it else? A madness most discreet,
A choking gall and a preserving sweet.
- William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet, act 1, sc. 1.

Much ado about nothing
- William Shakespeare

And remember, my sentimental friend, that a heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others.
- Professor Marvel, Wizard of Oz

The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.
- Eden Ahbez

Love: A term which has no meaning if defined.
- John Ralston Saul, The Doubter's Companion

Love: A temporary insanity curable by marriage or by the removal of the patient from the influences under which he incurred the disorder. This disease, like caries and many other ailments, is prevalent only among civilized races living under artificial conditions; barbarous nations breathing pure air and eating simple food enjoy immunity from its ravages. It is sometimes fatal, but more frequently to the physician than to the patient.''
- The Devil's Dictionary, Ambrose Bierce

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
- The Apostle Paul, 1 Corinthians 13:4-8a (NIV)

Tell me why the stars do shine
Tell me why the ivy twines
Tell me why the sky's so blue
And I will tell you why I love you.

Nuclear fusion makes stars to shine
Phototropism makes ivy twine
Rayleigh Scattering makes sky so blue
Sexual hormones are why I love you.
- Fortune file

See also:

Human love

Other types of love (philias)

Wiktionary

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